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Wedding Packages in Cape May, NJ

Set amidst amazing gardens, luxurious interiors, and wraparound porches, The Southern Mansion is one of few wedding venues in Cape May, NJ that guarantees a dream wedding ceremony! Whether you’re planning a traditional wedding with all its events, or you’re just looking to say “I do” in front of your close family and friends, we offer customizable package options that will make your day special.  

Southern Mansion Wedding Package

  • Luxurious genuine Victorian interiors
  • Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception facilities
  • On-site catering
  • On-site event coordinator
  • Elegant floor-length ivory damask linens
  • Butlered hors d’oeuvre service
  • Best recommendations for local vendors
  • BYOB facility (bar arrangements included)
  • Onsite parking for overnight registered guests
  • Full gourmet breakfast offered with accommodations
  • Total privacy and attention are given to your event, as we hold one wedding at a time

Our package includes the following menu, coffee and tea service, site fee, cake-cutting service, Champagne toast service, ivory damask linens, tables, chairs, glassware, and china. 

You will be responsible for the tax, gratuity, purchasing the alcohol, mixers, bartender fee, wedding cake, wedding planner, flowers, place cards, any additional rentals, and vendor services. Our maximum capacity for a sit-down dinner is 150 guests.

We are a BYOB facility, and we will supply the bartender(s) and the bar arrangements. You may arrange for the alcohol to be delivered by a local liquor provider. 

Southern Mansion Sit-Down Package

Cocktail hour: *Select two  

Cold Displays

  • International Cheese 
  • Assorted Crudités with Creamy Homemade Dipping Sauce Grilled Seasonal Vegetable Display 
  • Smoked Salmon Display
  • Spinach or Artichoke Dip and Crackers
  • Vegetable and Fruit Display
  • Goat Cheese Tureen and Crostini
  • Roma Tomato and Basil Bruschetta
  • Antipasto
  • Hot Displays
  • Grilled Seasonal Vegetable Display
  • Fruit and Baked Brie with Raspberry Sauce
  • Spinach or Artichoke Dip and Gourmet Crackers Quesadilla Display

*Additional Displays $8- $10 a person

Butlered Hors d’oeuvres: *Select five

  • Prosciutto, Goat Cheese & Honey Crostini Smoked Salmon & Cream Cheese Crostini
  • Honey Mango Pulled Pork Crostini
  • Petite Beef Wellingtons
  • Coconut Chicken
  • Teriyaki Glaze Chicken Skewers 
  • Teriyaki Glaze Beef Skewers 
  • Scallops Wrapped in Bacon
  • Chicken Wrapped in Bacon
  • Coconut Shrimp
  • Beer Steamed Shrimp
  • Conch Fritters
  • Clam Fritters
  • Pig in a Blanket 
  • Clams Casino
  • Sausage Stuffed Mushrooms 
  • Marinated Flank Steak & Mushrooms Skewers Portabella Mushroom Rockefeller 
  • Assorted Canapés
  • Cocktail Meatballs with Chili Sauce 

*Additional Hors d’oeuvres $4- $7 a person

Cocktail Hour Enhancement

  • Pasta Station with Chef Attendant
  • Choice of Two Pastas and Three 
  • Delectable Sauces with Chef Attendant

Or choice of two 

  • Penne Pasta with Fresh Roma Tomato and Basil  
  • Baked Ziti with Pepperoni Marinara     
  • Baked Ravioli Alfredo

*Additional $9 a person 

Sauté Station with Chef Attendant *Select two 

  • Shrimp and scallop al Fresca
  • Fresh Jersey Clams 
  • Caribbean Chicken
  • Shrimp Scampi

*Additional $14 a person

Seafood Station

  • Includes: U-peeled Steamed Shrimp, Fresh Jersey Clams Casino Rockefeller, appropriate sauces, and condiments

*Additional $20 per person

Raw Bar

  • Cocktail Shrimp, Raw Oysters, Raw Clams, Crab Claws, Steamed Lobster are available at additional cost market price

Dinner Reception

Salad Course *Select one

  • Mixed Wild Field Greens 
  • Spinach and Romaine with Blue Cheese
  • Roma Tomato and Fresh Mozzarella
  • Spinach, Cranberry, Walnuts and Goat Cheese
  • Greek Salad 

Sit Down Dinner Entrées *Select two

  • Filet Mignon $169
    • Center Cut Filet Served with a choice of Demi-Glaze, Creamy Bearnaise, or a Tarragon Hollandaise Sauce 
  • Filet of Top Sirloin $159
    • First Cut Sirloin, Seasoned to Perfection, Chargrilled, and topped with a choice of a Bearnaise, or Demi-Glaze Sauce 
  • Veal Chop Francaise $169
    • Charbroiled Veal Chop, topped with a Lemon White Wine Butter Sauce
  • Bronze Chicken Breast $149
    • Tender Young Chicken Breast, filled with Aged Sharp Provolone, Garlic and Red Roasted Peppers topped with Garlic Creamy Sauce  
  • Southern Mansion Chicken Marsala $149
    • Sauteed Breast of Chicken topped with a Cremini Mushroom in a Marsala Wine Sauce 
  • Southern Style Chicken $149
    • Tender Chicken Breast, filled with Homemade Sweet Corn Bread, Onions, and Peppers, topped with an Old Fashion Supreme Sauce 
  • Chicken Mediterranean $149
    • Tender Natural Breast of Chicken, filled with Marinated Artichokes, Mediterranean Olives, Red Roasted Peppers and Onions topped with Diced Tomatoes and Garlic  
  • Chicken Shrimp Imperial $159
    • Tender Breast of Chicken Stuffed with Shrimp Imperial, topped with a Creamy Lobster Sauce 
  • Pork Chop $149
    • Grilled French Cut Bone-in Pork Chop, topped with an Apple Brady Sauce
  • Crab Cakes- Market Price
    • Fresh Lump Crab Meat, topped with a Roasted Red Pepper Sauce
  • Lemon Butter Mahi Mahi $149
    • Pan Seared Mahi Mahi Filets, topped with a White Wine Garlic Lemon Butter Sauce
  • Herb Encrusted Salmon $149
    • Fresh Atlantic Salmon Encrusted with a Special Blend of Herbs, topped with a Creamy Lobster Sauce 
  • Flounder Crab Imperial – Market Price
    • Fresh Flounder Stuffed with Crab Imperial, topped with a Red Roasted Pepper Sauce 
  • Vegetable & Pesto Fresh Jersey Flounder $149
    • Fresh Flounder Stuffed with Julienned Vegetables, topped with Sundried Tomato Pesto Sauce
  • Broiled Cod $149
    • Fresh Cod Filet, topped with a Garlic Butter Sauce
  • Stuffed Shrimp Imperial $159
    • Gulf Jumbo Shrimp Stuffed with Crab Imperial topped with a Lemon Lime Infused Butter
  • Shrimp Cake $149
    • Fresh Steamed Shrimp Prepared in a Traditional Imperial mix, topped with a Red Roasted Pepper Sauce 
  • Vegetarian Entrée (Chef Choice) $139
    • *Vegetarian meal could be considered as a third option
    • *All entrees are served with Fresh Rolls and Butter, Gourmet Herb Roasted Vegetables and Chef’s Choice Potato or Rice
  • Wedding Cake Enhancement
    • Serve your wedding cake in Martini Glass, decorated with delicious Ice cream and berries
      • An additional $10 a person
      Southern Mansion Assorted Petit Fours, mini desserts & cookies
      • An additional $12 a person
    • Chocolate covered strawberries
      • $50 per dozen 

Ceremony Site Package

Whether you plan a traditional wedding with all its events, or you are just looking to say “I do” in front of your close family and friends, the Southern Mansion will hold your dream ceremony in its spectacular gardens that will offer you a secluded exotic area even in the most crowded weekends in Cape May. 

Why should you worry about getting your guests on the beach and from the beach to the reception, fear the sand in your shoes, or the inclement weather? The Southern Mansion is always open to welcome your special wedding ceremony inside in case the rain comes uninvited.  Our luxurious Victorian Ballroom will be an elegant place to create great memories for you and your guests! 

We would be delighted to have you here at your wedding!

Ceremony site fee: $990 if you hold both ceremony and reception here starting at $1,500 for ceremony only (depending on #of guests) the fee is per hour 

The site fee includes:

  • One-hour site fee
  • Standard white folding chairs set up
  • The use of the grounds
  • The permission to take pictures
  • Our maximum is 150 guests. Minimum 85 guests.

*We may accommodate your party with a lower minimum for an additional charge of $20 to $30 a person. Please ask for availability.

*Rates are subject to change, based on availability.

*Children’s Menus and Vendor Meals are available at half price.

*Please add a 6.625% tax and a 24% Service Fee.

*Bartender: $445.00 per bartender.

*We require one bartender for up to every 60 guests.

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