Cape May is often considered one of the more romantic places in the U.S. With our elegant Victorian mansions, beautiful beaches, and delicious seafood dining, it’s easy to see why. Whether you are planning a visit this Valentine’s Day or celebrating an anniversary, these Cape May romantic activities are sure to make your getaway extra special. Celebrate your love with a trip to Cape May and start planning today!
Tour the Victorian mansions
Go on a sightseeing tour and discover the beautiful Victorian homes that have put Cape May on the National Register of Historic Places. Take a self-guided tour and walk amongst some of the city’s most popular streets like Jackson and Hughes Street or take a drive and see even more gingerbread trim and towering turrets that give Cape May its charm. Poplar homes to see include the Emlen Physick Estate, the Gallagher House, the Pink House, and of course, the Southern Mansion.
Learn more about the guided tours at Southern Mansion and get an up-close look at its Victorian splendor.
Spend a day at the beach
What’s more romantic than walking hand in hand at the beach. Whether you’re there to catch a sunrise or sunset, or are just looking to relax together on a sunny afternoon, the beaches of Cape May provide a beautiful backdrop. For sunsets, one of the best places in Sunset Beach. For more secluded beaches, visit Higbee Beach and for fun in the sun, Cape May Beach is your destination. And really almost anywhere along Cape May’s coastline, you’ll be able to witness a colorful sunrise.
Visit the lighthouse
Visit Cape May Point State Park to climb to the top of the Cape May Lighthouse, which is a historic landmark in Cape May. Enjoy stunning views from atop the lighthouse after climbing the 199 wrought iron steps. After reaching the top, head back down to explore one of the many nature trails in the park for a romantic outing.
Fine seafood dining
Due to Cape May’s seaside location, its local restaurants have access to some of the best seafood on the East Coast. With many open year-round, dine out at one of the many local restaurants, no matter what time of year. Try 410 Bank Street for seafood dishes served inside a vine-covered 1840s carriage house. Or enjoy sophisticated and elegant vibes at the Ebbitt Room. And for a bit of a French flair, make a reservation at the opulent Provence restaurant, set inside a historic 1854 mansion.
Willow Creek Winery
What could be more romantic than wine tasting one of Cape May’s most picturesque vineyards? Willow Creek Winery boasts a wide variety of varietals for tasting, delicious tapas, and appetizers, plus stunning gardens and grounds to be admired. One of their most popular events is Firepit Fridays (although also held on Saturdays), where you can enjoy fireside chats with sangria, wine, and tasty tapas.
Willow Creek Winery is located near Southern Mansion, making it easy to visit and taste when you stay with us!
Stay at a romantic bed and breakfast in Cape May
One of the best Cape May romantic activities is staying in a Victorian bed and breakfast. Rated as one of the most romantic places to stay in Cape May, the Southern Mansion has been hosting couples for 25 years. The estate has been completely restored to its original glory of genuine Southern hospitality. We boast elegant rooms, absolute privacy, gourmet food, and luxurious amenities that will calm and delight your senses during your stay.
Choose from decadent and elegant rooms, each uniquely decorated with Victorian details and furnishings. And while you can’t go wrong with any of our accommodations, our Premier, Superior, and Master rooms offer an elevated experience with exceptional amenities, including some with a fireplace, soaking tub, and a private balcony.
Make your stay with us extra special with one of our add-on items, which includes your choice of chocolate-covered strawberries, fruit baskets, and a cheese & a fruit platter.
We look forward to making your stay with us one you will always remember!








